Sometimes we manage to get exactly the same rhythm of fingers going in and out of our bums and that usually results in spectacular fireworks cums!

With kind communication and an open and curious attitude, you can enjoy 69," says Janet Brito, PhD, a clinical psychologist and certified sex therapist in Honolulu, Hawaii. Enjoy the largest amateur porn community on the net as well as full-length scenes from the top XXX studios. To really spice it up for the summer, the receiving partner can put a pillow under their stomach with an icepack wrapped in a towel to keep them cool and experiment with some light temperature play. It feels intuitive for the partner who wants to be cuffed to also be partner recieving — but not a requirement necessarily! Sometimes all it takes is a brand-spanking-new position to get the party started and to reignite some important conversations about what feels best in the act.

I throw out some terrible ideas like fucking on a quiet cobblestone street midday, or running into a Starbucks bathroom. Plus, hitting your own O is hard enough when it's just your partner going down on you—but when you have to take care of them simultaneously?

We find it mutually stimulating and true, it does take much experience to get the simultaneous orgasm. The moment where we are both cumming, holding each other tight, and swallowing each other's cum, is such a wonderful feeling. Her massively popular series, including “A Court of Thorns and Roses,” mix fantasy lore with soft-core romance — and a whole lot of trauma. to carry such boobs; unless they were silicone implants of course at which they would look out of place on such a skinny structure of 5'8" 90 lbs. If your work has been posted here without your permission, please contact us and we will remove the material promptly.The receiving partner gets to relax on their stomach, with some support from a pillow or blanket under their head. The chill position helps both partners get comfortable, which is a surefire way to make anal more comfortable and pleasurable. Simply have the receiving partner sit on the penetrating partner’s lap, facing forward, and start grinding away.

For Queen Takes King, you’ll use your favorite chair (or any available surface) and have the receiving partner straddle the penetrating partner’s lap. It might take a little practice to master this position, which requires the penetrating partner to lie on their back with their legs pulled in to their chest. She did not cum herself, but focusing her attention on me and making me erupt, shake, and lose control beneath her seems to be something she really enjoys.

Put the concept to use during 69 by focusing deeply on what it feels like to touch and be touched, says Wise. I think we are getting ingredients to cook, but he picks up several frozen pizzas, some beer, and a pre-made salad. I generally have sex with my wife weekly 3 or 4 times but currently I was sex starving as my wife is pregnant. Straddling said pillow (or your lover’s thigh, go off) makes this position is great for people with vulvas to get the friction they really want. I’m in a perfectly happy marriage and I think my husband is faithful, but I’m bored, and he’s always traveling, and I kind of just want mind-blowing sex.